“For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and self-discipline.” 2 Timothy 1:7, LSB
I’ve usually used the first part of this verse in regard to courage, but the last part is really helpful as well when it comes to battling temptation. At least it has helped me in the midst of the fight, giving me a better chance to be victorious throughout it despite the very deep struggle with alluring darkness.
God gave us the Holy Spirit. It all starts here and hinges fully on what Christ had already accomplished. He fully paid our sin-debt and then gave us new life, new hearts. In Him we are a new creation; our old sinful selves have no power over us anymore, having died with Christ on the cross. Furthermore, He has filled us with His presence through the Holy Spirit. It is through the Spirit that He sanctifies us, guides us, teaches us, communes with us, and yes, gives us aid in when we fight with temptation.
Self Discipline. There is now an ability to say “no” to sin and “yes” to God. It may not feel that way (in fact, any good temptation will do its utmost to make you feel powerless to resist), but feelings, though real and potent, are not facts. Facts trump feelings. Because of Jesus, you DO have the ability to fight this battle. Not because of anything you have done, but because His Spirit has given us Power.
Power. Yes, that same type of power that spoke creation into existence and stilled the stormy seas. A power outside of ourselves that has no bounds. A power sufficient for us to have the discipline to stay the course.
Love. Like in the previous post, once again we see a core concept highlighted, out of which all else stems. In this case, it is love. At least with the temptation that I’ve faced, it has called action, thoughts, or imagination of things that are not loving at all towards other people, let alone God. The tempter wants me to fulfill some appealing desire at the expense and in sprite of all else and everyone else. But God is love and in Him there is no darkness. His love now fills and overflows our hearts. Would this tempting action (or lack thereof), this tempting thought, or whatever, be in the character of love? No! Love not only casts out fear, but I’d say (and this is me and not Scripture) that it also disarms the desire. Oh yes, the struggle may still be there for a bit, but if I remember love, how can I give into the temptation?
(Note: this last part may be more powerful later on, once one better understands what true love is vs. the many other things that we may deem or even justify as “loving” but may not actually be if carefully examined).